The Secret Language of Relationships

I have this book called The Secret Language of Relationships. It’s a “complete personology guide to any relationship” using the week you were born. I have enjoyed matching my birth week with others and matching other people I know to see what it has to say. It’s a lot of fun. Sometimes true; sometimes not. But just fun. So when Canyon was born I matched him to me and to Gary. And when Trek was born I did the same and also matched him and Canyon. Canyon and Trek are best at “Friendship;” their relationship strengths are “social, organizational, and humorous.” It also says “…magnetic powers speak well for the harmony between these partners, but even more for the synergy they generate.” I hope this means they will be good friends who laugh a lot together.

Tonight me and my two sweet, sweet, boys were playing in their room. Trek was in my lap and Canyon was building block towers and knocking them down. Trek’s eyes were following Canon wherever he went. Trek was smiling; we were all having a good time. Then suddenly Trek laughed, then laughed some more. It was clear he was laughing at Canyon. Canyon thought that it was pretty cool that baby Trekker was laughing at him so he decided to summon some more giggles. And boy did he. As Canyon was making silly noises and faces in Trek’s face Trek just laughed louder and longer. This made Canyon laugh and of course made me laugh. This was the first time Trek has really laughed, undeniably laughed and it was at his brother. This warms a mama’s heart. Tonight I caught my first glimpse of their “magnetic power” and I have never felt luckier.